hi ticker
Firstly, are you using 3rd party software to manage your wireless connection? If so, a couple of questions:
1. Is it set to start on boot up?
2. Is it set to connect automatically?
if the the answer to either/both is in the negative then correcting either/both to the positive could be the answer you are seeking.
i dont quite know what you mean by this i am only using the software that was installed by the lappy drivers from new..updated of coarse.
as to the other things WLANSVC and the icon (it only appears after i turn adaptor on,,,unless i wired)

i checked them and as you see they appear to be ok...and i still gotta use function to turn it on
i'm begining to wonder if it may be sommat else in my device manager in c/panel it shows two network adaptors 1 for wired "jcmircon" and 1 "realtek wireless" the mircon one shows in my bios but the realtek dont could this be related and the mircon 1 is set as default??